Taking Time

As the anniversary of 9/11 comes around, there seems to be a renewed focus on family, with stories in the news reminding us to hug our kids and tell those around you that you care for, and love them.  You'd think this all goes without saying - as a parent, we unconditionally love our children.  However, there's plenty of days that we sit back and think about the wrong things we said, maybe losing our tempers, or not spending enough time with them.  If you're like me, you also see your "Me Time" at a premium, so why not kill 2 birds with one stone?

B and I, trackside in Plattsburgh, NY Labor Day 2011

Make railfanning an adventure with your kids.  It is a great reason to get out of the house and away from the video games.  When you find a train, take the time to talk about what you're seeing, ask them what they think is in each car, and explain why you're closely scrutinizing the details of those 100 ton barber trucks.  Kids are sponges, and they soak up everything you put out - good, bad, or ugly.  They may not really care about what you're seeing, but they will appreciate that you're sharing the experience with them.  Besides, what kid ( or adult ) isn't impressed by the power of three C44-9W's?